5 Reasons Why Everyone Woman Should experience How Country Feels

Road trip through the south with Julia... We definitely found out HCF!

While Kim may be well versed in the dating world, I would say I am well seasoned in relationships. Having been in relationships for a majority of the last 13 years, and I have a pretty good idea of what I do and don't want (I may still working out some kinks)!  So what do I want? Lets go back a bit to my younger days... Growing up, riding horses and listening to country music were two my favorite things, and trust me, they still are! I have always had a dream of moving somewhere on the outskirts of town where I can have my horses, maybe a cow or two, and be surrounded by nature and open space!  Instead, ONE way or another (we will save that story for a bottle of wine and a late night) I have ended up in the desert... the High Desert (not the pretty kind like, say...Scottsdale)... subjected to scorching heat, dying Joshua trees, tumble weeds, and every greasy chain restaurant known to man.  My roots and my heart however, are still on a quest to find someone who can show me... How Country Feels (HCF).  

This is not to say I have never experienced HCF, I have actually had quite a few experiences with HCF, and let me tell you, it feels like your favorite pair of old jeans that fit juuuuuussst right!  Here's my top 5 reasons why finding a man to show you HCF is essential... whether it's your thing or not, I recommend it at LEAST once... kind of like a bucket list item!

They keep it real: Men who know HCF are comfortable in their own skin.  They know who they are, what they want, and usually a plan of how they are getting it! There are no secrets and no surprises.  They are an open book; if you ask them a question, expect to get a REAL and HONEST answer... no beating around the bush!  What you see IS what you get (and its usually sexy and hot).  They are generally laid back, make you feel at ease, and are extremely easy to talk to.  They are funny, quick witted, and DGAF what anybody else thinks! They are genuine MEN who are usually chivalrous, not because they are trying to sleep with you (although I'm sure they wouldn't mind), but because they appreciate and RESPECT women. What a concept huh...Honesty...Respect...

They appreciate NATURAL beauty:  Say goodbye to the days of feeling like you have to constantly have makeup on and have your hair done!  These MEN are all about appreciating you in your natural form.  They generally love a girl in cut off jean shorts and a t-shirt, hair up in a mess, who is ready to leave in 5 min, not 5 hours!  Their style is basic and practical.  Jeans, t-shirt, flannel, boots... what more do you need? Really? Like...seriously?  

They are adventurous:  There will never be a dull moment! These MEN are adrenaline junkies.  They like taking risks.  Be prepared to be pushed out of your comfort zone.  They are active, which by default gives them amazing bodies... which means if you aren't in shape, you will be!  They love the outdoors, which means you can expect fun, CREATIVE, and active dates! There will still be the classic dinner and a movie date (maybe pizza and Netflix?), but these MEN like to mix it up!  Enjoy it and go with the flow, you won't be disappointed! 

Chase Rice: Example of HCF presentation

They are good with their hands:  In more ways than one! Expect these MEN to love fixing things.  They are NOT taking their truck in for an oil change, they are doing it themselves. Warning: be prepared to be turned ON... is there ANYTHING hotter than a man covered in grease and dripping with sweat? I didn't think so.   New flooring? New cabinets? They are doing it themselves, and if they aren't, they have a friend who knows how.  Never hire a handy man again, because he IS your HANDyman.  They get a sense of accomplishment from doing things themselves, which is hot and sexy!  These MEN are often hard workers that involves something with being outside... again... dripping in sweat... sexy!

They are excellent lovers:  All of the previously mentioned traits come together in the bedroom.  Expect these MEN to color outside the lines.  Say goodbye to boring sex in bed.  Think up against the wall, on the counter, in the shower, on the floor, in the truck, on top of hay bales... all accompanied by a little country music? Yes please! They will take control... their rough hands against your smooth skin is sexy in itself (sorry, I got a little carried away... flashbacks).  Since they respect you and appreciate your natural beauty, they are all about pleasing YOU, and making sure you finish first. In this case, Nice guys really do finish last!

Now, HCF is not always a particular style, and is not always accompanied by country music and jeans and a t-shirt... it is a personality and lifestyle. You may have a wild card, an outlier so to speak, such as a business man (keep your eye out for Kim's blog) who can show you HCF, however this list depicts the usual HCF presentation and package.  WARNING: BOLO for imposters! Just because a guy has jeans and a t-shirt paired with a beard (is it overly manicured? this may be a sign of an imposter, are the jeans too tight?), does not mean he can show you HCF.  Be careful and tread lightly! You should be able to decipher if you are dealing with an imposter within 15 min of sparking conversation; be observant.  Lastly, if you do mange to find a MAN who can show you HCF, you should probably hang on to him! They are out there, and are not always easy to find... rather they seem to find you, and show up when you least expect it; sometimes when you need them most!