Lessons Learned

WOW! It has been far too long since I have posted, but I assure you I had good reason. MY LIFE GOT CRAY! I have had MANY life changes occur over the last couple months.  I went through a very painful, yet appropriate break up, which meant I had to move.....yet AGAIN! Since "The Breakup" I have been busy with work and juggling my very busy and exciting life!  I went to my best friends wedding in Sayulita, Mexico (currently the site of Bachelor in Paradise), which was AMAZING and EPIC! I met awesome, genuine, kind people.  I went and saw Kenny Chesney and Jason Aldean at the Rose Bowl (first country concert ever hosted by the RB) with my newly betrothed best friend, which was one of the best things ever! And most recently I went up north to SF and again, had another nearly EPIC weekend, which included once of my first ever snaps (Snapchat) being featured on the SF Snap Story! Basically, we are mini celebs...  Over the past months, I have had met some awesome people who have eased me into the single life, and kept me, uhm... entertained? I have made memories that I will NEVER forget!

Now, as I settle in my cozy apartment and summer is winding down, it is back to reality: school, gym, and eating healthy...ish, I think it is also a time to reflect on what I have learned: 1) Everything happens for a reason.  Even though I was devastated and somewhat blindsided by the end of my relationship, deep down I knew it was the best thing for me and for him.  Whether  or not I was emotionally ready at that moment in April, my heart was.  In the past, without him I had felt emotionally "broken."  This was different; I had been hurt so much that I had unknowingly been preparing myself for this moment; the moment where I would have the strength and emotional readiness to be without him. Whether my mind knew it or not, my heart, body and sub-conscience being were there to catch me...When the moment came, I was terribly sad and upset however, I was anything but broken. The best part? I can honestly say I have no anger, hate, or feelings for him.  In a way I feel nothing, which makes me wonder, "How much could I have loved him, if I feel so complacent?"  I may never know the answer...  2) People are placed in your life for a reason; whether it is for a month, a summer, a year, or for life.  EVERYONE I have met since "The Breakup" has contributed in some way to my healing process and encouraging me to enjoy life and spontaneity.  Let me tell you, there are MANY fish in the sea, and they are quite delicious!  Don't hold back and embrace the fact that you have the ability to be who are, with no apologies. 3) The world is your oyster! When you are in a relationship, you often think and consider your partner.  You plan a life together, you have dreams and visions for your future.  When your partner is no longer in your world, it is shocking and liberating all at the same time.  The bright side of a life altering situation shines light on the fact that there is nothing out of reach.  What can I do now?  In my case, I can travel to wherever I want, when I want.  Luckily my profession allows me to be flexible, giving me the ability to move anywhere I want, for however long I want, and follow my dreams of travel and world exploration.

My point is, you never know when life will throw you a curveball (or curves of any kind)!  I wasn't expecting it, but I am happy, free, excelling at work, and enjoying every moment of my life.  Lucky for you all, I plan on blogging more regularly, but most likely not every day! I am definitely going to be having guest bloggers; and let me tell you, we have some FABULOUS ideas!  So check back often, I promise you won't be disappointed!